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Erotic play as gender laboratory
gender and possibility, pleasure and aliveness, sexuality and desire Ezra Cake, RP 2026-08-16 gender and possibility, pleasure and aliveness, sexuality and desire Ezra Cake, RP 2026-08-16

Erotic play as gender laboratory

Sometimes we discover ourselves most clearly in spaces where we are temporarily freed from needing to fully know who we are.

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Learning to survive our own aliveness
life in a body, pleasure and aliveness, sexuality and desire Ezra Cake, RP 2026-08-16 life in a body, pleasure and aliveness, sexuality and desire Ezra Cake, RP 2026-08-16

Learning to survive our own aliveness

We often think healing means learning to tolerate pain. Sometimes it also means learning to tolerate joy.

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Pleasure begins with attention
life in a body, pleasure and aliveness, sexuality and desire Ezra Cake, RP 2026-08-16 life in a body, pleasure and aliveness, sexuality and desire Ezra Cake, RP 2026-08-16

Pleasure begins with attention

Pleasure often expands not because sensation changes, but because perception does.

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Therapy is shaped by values.
Naming mine is part of being accountable for how I practise.

these are my values and commitments, in the therapy room and beyond →


Land, water and responsibility

I live, raise my family, play and work as a white settler in Tkaronto, between the Don and Humber Rivers, on the traditional territory of many nations and lands covered by Treaty 13 with the Mississaugas of the Credit. I benefit from ongoing colonialism. Acknowledgement is not repair; it is part of an ongoing responsibility to this land, its waters and Indigenous sovereignty.

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Ezra Cake Psychotherapy

Ezra Cake (they/them) is a Registered Psychotherapist offering online therapy across Ontario. Their work focuses on sexuality, gender, pleasure, and the complicated business of living in a body.

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