sex & gender therapy
for the unique human you are

You can make positive, lasting change

Pleasure is a profound healer, it’s personal, political and powerful - it’s your birthright

Pleasure is for every body

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You deserve to feel empowered, at ease and joyful in your body, gender and sexuality

I’m Ez (they/them), I work with people who want to feel more at home in themselves - more joy in their bodies, desires, sexuality and gender.

If you’re navigating shame, disconnection, or uncertainty, you’re not alone. In our work together, you’ll find room to breathe, be curious and connect with what brings you aliveness.

I believe:

  • There is no wrong way to have a body

  • Your body belongs to you and you alone

  • Pleasure is a profound source of healing

  • Your choices and voice are central to your sexual and gender joy

  • You are not broken, and you don’t need to fit someone else’s script

I’m a queer, trans, neurodivergent, white, middle-aged, trauma-informed Registered Psychotherapist. Based in Toronto, I’ve offered online, sex- and gender-affirming therapy across Ontario for over a decade—rooted in care, creativity, and the belief in your potential to thrive.

What is working with me like?

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We’ll listen to all your parts—especially the ones that don’t usually get airtime.

Parts of self work helps you tune in to the internal voices that shape your experience—protective parts, young parts, and parts that hold desire, fear, or resistance. Together, we create room for all of them with curiosity and compassion. I’ll support you in identifying the internal dynamics at play, so you can move from being overwhelmed by your parts to being in relationship with them. This opens up more clarity, self-trust, and choice—especially around pleasure, sexuality and gender.

We’ll work with the body, not just talk about it.

Together, we will explore sensations, breath, posture, movement and emotions as pathways to insight. You’ll learn to notice what your body is saying, to gently track activation and release, and to engage in somatic experiments that support you to feel more grounded, more alive and more at home in yourself. Whether you’re exploring gender, reclaiming desire, or healing shame, the body holds important truths we can follow.

We’ll go deep, together.

Therapy with me is about being met. Feeling seen. Laughing together. Facing the hard stuff in a space that welcomes paradox, absurdity, and joy. I offer steadiness and play, gentleness and clarity. We don’t bypass complexity—we make room for it, while expanding your capacity to feel connected, to yourself and to others.

Still curious? Learn more about how I work

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Change is possible
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Reclaim lightness. Befriend your body. Discover aliveness and play. Go beyond getting to “good enough.

We will explore the complexities, absurdities and hard feels of being human while taking seriously the creation of happiness, laughter, erotic aliveness and play.